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ANGER!

We all know the angry dude. The asshole in the car that won’t let go of his horn, and fifty of us around him are suffering until he stops, because he needs to be heard, the guy who goes from one to ten in a matter of minutes and just about anything will make his…

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Incompatible Sex Drives

I often get couples that have incompatible sex drives. He feels like a bear pawing at you. You pretend to sleep, you get headaches, you “don’t feel well,”. I get it. He’s never satisfied enough. You just did it Sunday and it’s Tuesday. She is always tired, she doesn’t touch me, she makes me wait…

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MOOD IS CONTAGIOUS

YOUR mood affects everyone around you; likewise, theirs affects you. And it is our responsibility, our duty, to drop our negative emotion when we are with people. Because mood is like a cold- Mood is contagious. There’s a sentence I love. It goes like this: When ______ walks in the door are people better off…

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Vulnerability – The Sexiest Word Alive

Vulnerable is a bad word. If we are vulnerable to illness, it’s bad; we can get sick easily. If we are vulnerable to scam artists, it’s bad; others can make fools of us and take our money. If we are vulnerable to sales people-bad, they will talk our money right out of our pockets. Lesson…

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Vulnerability is Sexy

Vulnerability- “the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally” or in layman’s terms, the ability to let others know how you feel in a given moment, is fucking sexy. I know, I know, you think you are a wuss if you show any emotion…

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More on Text Anxiety- Dominance vs. Submissive

On a daily basis we are dependent on our texts. That’s right. Dependent. We wait to see where we are going to meet, when is the next class, what time is the next meeting? What are you doing tonight? Do you want to meet for a drink? … Omg are you going to respond?? Welcome…

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Text Anxiety

We have all heard of test anxiety, but have you heard of text anxiety? It might just be one of our most modern anxieties today. Test anxiety is a combination of physiological over-arousal, tension and somatic symptoms, along with worry, dread, fear of failure, and catastrophizing, that occur before or during test situations. Text anxiety…

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EMOTIONS ARE CONTAGEOUS

MOOD IS CONTAGEOUS YOUR mood affects everyone around you; likewise, theirs affects you.  And it is our responsibility, our duty, to drop our negative emotion when we are with people. Because mood is like a cold- Mood is contagious. There’s a sentence I love. It goes like this: When ______ walks in the door are…

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Your Emotional Temperature

Your Emotional Temperature We have a set emotional temperature that we are in a habit of keeping, we are used to keeping it, and we are addicted to keeping it. And perhaps most importantly, we are most comfortable when we are at this emotion. But what the heck is emotional temperature?  Basically, ET is the…

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